The Intimacy and Sexuality Expression Preference (ISEP) Tool
The Intimacy and Sexuality Expression Preference (ISEP) tool is designed for health professionals to initiate discussion with older people about their preferences for intimacy and sexuality expression in an aged care setting.
Intimacy and Sexuality in Older People
The ability to freely express intimacy and sexuality is an important aspect of holistic care in older people, including those living with dementia. Sexual expression helps to form new and meaningful interpersonal relationships, enables older people to engage in sexual behaviours of significance, and can improve quality of life.
What is sexual expression in older people?
Sexual expression in older people can include a range of activities, including:
- Maintenance of physical appearance
- Proximity and physical contact, such as holding hands, hugging, cuddling, and kissing
- Displays of affection
- Flirting
- Reading or watching sexually explicit materials
- Masturbation
- Sexual intercourse
Why is sexual expression in older people important?
Despite the importance of being able to express intimacy and sexuality, changes to this can often occurs with aging, and particularly when an individual develops dementia. Sexual health is often a neglected component of care for older people, both with and without dementia. An older person’s expression of intimacy and sexuality can often cause embarrassment, distress, and unease for health professionals and care providers. In some instances, an interest in intimate and sexual behaviours is seen as a symptom of dementia, and the behaviour is likely to be discouraged. Despite this, older people generally desire the opportunity to discuss their preferences. Therefore, there is an identified need for a tool which enables the intimacy and sexuality preferences of an older person to be explored.
Supporting older people’s sexual preferences
In order to allow older people to freely express and maintain their sexual preferences, their sexual rights must be respected. To enable this, it is important to understand an older person’s preferences for expression of intimacy and sexuality.
The Intimacy and Sexual Expression Preference (ISEP) tool has been designed to initiate discussion between a health professional and an older person to get to know their intimate and sexual desires, needs, and preferences.